Aussielicious

I Can’t do it. Just can’t.

A couple of years ago I saw a guy on the nude beach that I thought was really hot then a year or so later he turns up at a class I was doing and we got on really well having a good laugh and cheeky flirt. I don’t get to catch up with him as much as I would like but his boyfriend doesn’t trust him (he’s cheated before) and doesn’t like me despite having never met me.

My friend was emailing me the other day saying he wanted to catch up and finally hook up and do that thing his boyfriend won’t do but my friend loves. I would love to do that thing to my friend too and have wild sex with him, but I can’t.

I’ll happily play with guys in relationships if that extra curricular activity is ok’d and approved of by the other partner, but I just can’t go through with being the “other man”. Not only would it make me a complete hypocrite as I’ve railed long and loud about monogamy and fidelity, but I just can’t do it with a clear conscience. How can I feel right about being the person someone cheats with but still maintain the right to be devastated if I ever meet someone and they cheat? I can’t and yes, I would be devastated.

Now, I need to tell my friend that yes, I want to do horny, filthy things with and to him, but it’s just not going to happen.

The latest edition of DNA has two beautiful boys, Aden and Jordan on the cover. They are a real life couple who are starting out in porn after being together for a few years. They are hot, and yeah, I’d watch them in porn for sure. There is something that has been bothering me about the article though. I don’t know if the magazine called them monogamous or they did, but they certainly claim to be “one person people”.

I totally understand from reading the article that they are completely committed to each other, but monogamous? No. They are not. They are working in porn, therefore sleeping with other people, and they say in the article that yes, they’ve had others join them for sex in their private lives from time to time as well.

How on earth could they call that monogamous? Monogamy by it’s very definition means to only be with one other perons, not at a time, or per day, but one other person, the one you are in the relationship with. I don’t care what they do. I have friends in various forms of open relationships and understand that sex and emotion aren’t necessarily connected, but be honest about what you call it. If you are having sex with other people, for gratification or work, you are NOT being monogamous.