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When Punk goes trans

When you think of Punk Rock music you think tattoos, tough guys and loud noise. Do you think about transgender Rock Gods? Probably not. Tom Gabel, lead singer of Against Me! is about to challenge all of that. The 6’2″ front man from the band and happily married husband to Heather has just started his transition from male to female and in an interview with Rolling Stone has said that he’ll live as a woman for a full year before considering gender reassignment surgery.

I have to admit that my knowledge of transgenderism is pretty limited but I imagine the bravery it takes to tell your wife that you no longer want to be a man is pretty immense. The fantastic thing about Tom’s wife Heather is that she is standing by him the whole way. She’s admitted that she’s been surprised that she hasn’t felt angry and has decided to just roll with whatever happens.

Tom will be known as Laura Jane Grace, also not a very Punk Rock name. When I hear that name Laura Jane Grace I think of floral dresses and house keeping not, as Tom puts it “imagine me, six-foot-two, in heels, f—ing screaming into someone’s face.”

One of the bravest people I know

Having recently interviewed a female to male transexual for this blog and chatting to a couple of other trans people briefly I’m still so in awe of people that have the strength to say publicly that they were born in the wrong body, even as an adult.

When a teenager, or even younger does it, I’m even more astounded and impressed. Oak Reed is one such teenager. Oak Reed has been open about being born a female but living as a male to his classmates and teachers for some time. The fact that Oak wasn’t bullied horrendously is incredible in itself. Even more inspiring and heart warming is the fact that Oak was then voted Homecoming King by those same classmates.

Sadly the school administrators have declared his votes invalid as he was enrolled as a female. He’d been allowed to wear a tuxedo when marching with the school band and wear the boys graduation gown, but somehow the Homecoming King title was different.

There is a facebook page started by his friends “Oak is Our King“. Feel free to join and show your support. Read the full article here.