Aussielicious

Now that I’ve started back at the new term of aerial silks classes as of last night, it’s time to start (finally) putting my new routine together. It’s been a long time in the planning this routine. The very talented Dan Murphy put together a custom mash-up for me to do the routine to. In the past I’ve noticed I perform better when I have a stronger costume and character to hide behind than if it’s essentially just me up there. It also helps to rehearse a bit.

So to go with the mashup of Freeek by George Michael and Erotica by Madonna, I’m putting together a bit of a fetish costume. Now I’m not usually into rubber, leather or “gear” fetish stuff, but through Sue over at Fairview I came across Slick It Up. So far I’ve got myself the Tactical Guard top which instantly does make you feel sexy. To go with it I think I’ll be getting myself some of the Sports Tights complete with the mesh arse in them.

Francois Sagat has used custom designed Slick It Up gear in his new porn directorial debut “Incubus” and it looks hot. The guy that runs Slick It Up is also uber hot and models some of the gear himself on their site. If you are into rubber/leather/mesh gear, go and have a look.

I’m not someone that is turned on by certain types of clothes. Leather and fetish wear does nothing for me. Speedos do nothing for me. Lycra, nothing. Any of those items on the right guy certainly don’t detract from his hotness but they don’t really enhance it for me.

What I do love is the chance of seeing something you aren’t supposed to. It’s an age old thing. Tell someone that something is off limits and that’s all they want to see or do. In Victorian times men used to stand on the street watching women step up on to the curb just in case they got a glimpse of ankle. Saucy isn’t it?

For me a kilt is always an opportunity for a glimpse and we always ask what the guy is wearing underneath don’t we? Staged photos of seeing up a kilt don’t work for me but guys giving a cheeky flash in the street or somewhere they aren’t supposed to always makes me look, and laugh. Let’s face it, I’m a voyeur and there’s not as much fun in looking at something if it’s handed to you on a platter.

Last night on television, a character was looking at online dating profiles (straight) and came across a profile of an “adult baby”.

That is one fetish I just don’t understand. I know a lot of people are into role play of various forms but a grown man wanting to be treated like a baby baffles the hell out of me. When it came up my flatmate told me that he knows a tv personality here in Australia is into it too.

My question is, how far do you take this role play? With adult babies, do they like to soil their nappy/diaper and have someone clean it up? Or is it more about being dominated and totally reliant on someone else?

A few years ago I came across a guy who was right into rape fantasies. He asked me straight away if I knew anywhere I could tie him up, rape him and then abandon him. Now I came over all practical and asked how he would get out and he just said, leave that up to me. For real? What if someone came along and found him like that? Do I end up with the police after me? What is it about being “raped” that can turn someone on.

I understand that a rape scenario is very different to being raped. By defininition, rape is sex without consent and against your will. So if you pre arrange it and enjoy it, it’s acting.

If anyone out there is into any of this, I’d love to hear from you! Please comment or email me.

The people that bring you NUDITY naked club night in London are set to launch their new night, SEXDANCE!

You can go nude here too or you can wear all sorts of fetish gear. The event’s website says the dress code is strict, if you don’t make an effort you won’t get in, and is made up of “leather, rubber, uniform, military, industrial, skingear, sportsgear, jocks only or naked. If you turn up in street clothes you will be asked to go naked! Love it.

SEXDANCE launches on Friday 2nd July (Friday of London Pride) at Union2, Goding Street entrance, Vauxhall in London! If any readers head along, I want a full report pretty please, SIR!