A little of little me

A while ago I posted a photo of myself at about one year of age that I had found at my parents place. This time I’m posting probably my favourite ever photo of myself. I don’t know how old I was at the time but I would say about 18 months old or so. I just look so happy. Don’t you wish life was that care-free as an adult?

Shoot me in the shower


When I see photos like these ones, my second response, after finding them hot, is to wonder how I would react if someone walked into the showers that I was in with a camera. While I’ve posed for photographers nude several times now and also had friends snap photos at the beach, shots like these are always going to spread around the world these days very quickly.

Would you let yourself be snapped in the shower like this? I love that these guys do and are so comfortable with it. It actually also gives me hope that younger generations aren’t ALL growing up to be prudish.

Who do you pick for the Team?


Last night I had the pleasure of chatting to Michal, the brains behind Teamm8 underwear, host of Boy About Town TV and singer, who very pleasantly surprised me by being very down to earth and chilled out.

There’s still a bit of time left to go and vote for your favourite Teamm8 to go head to head  with Jason, our favourite from the last Teamm8 photo shoot (main pic, left) from the other 6 finalists. So head on over and do your thing!

Do you like to watch?


It’s a sad thing that gang showers seem to be going the way of the dinosaurs these days. There is something so sexy about a bunch of men standing around together all wet and soapy, even when nothing sexual is going on.

There are hundreds of “hidden camera” shots out there of guys in public showers being photographed without their knowledge which is really dodgy but there is obviously a huge demand for these shots. Personally I find it hot when I can watch someone in the shower and they don’t know I’m watching, like if they haven’t closed their door on the shower at the gym properly, and I kinda like the idea of someone enjoying watching me too, if I’m feeling good that is.


This woman is amazing. She doesn’t resort to all the big dramatic drops which look fantastic but she does everything beautifully proving the simple things are often the best.

Winter wonderland

We haven’t had a winter nudity submission for a while now. It can’t possibly be that warm just yet in the northern hemisphere!

Something disturbing is happening

Something happened in early spring, maybe even late winter here in Australia as, untrained as I am, it appears to be breeding season. There are pregnant women everywhere I turn. Even on the rare days lately when we haven’t had rain, I check to make sure any public seating isn’t wet from some poor woman’s waters bursting all over the place.

It’s just as well I haven’t had any sex lately, because I’m sure, even with physiological improbabilities one of us might end up knocked up and I’m not ready to be a father yet, or a mother!

This would fix my day

A good long session of kissing someone lovely would make my day so much better. I don’t know if it’s the Valentine’s effect or just that I’m out of whack in general but I’m in the mood to slap someone silly. A friend wants to go couple slapping (only partly seriously) and find couples being romantic and go slap them.

VD is here again

Like that itch that just won’t go away, Valentine’s has flared up again in a rash of commercial sentimentality across Sydney. The symptoms are everywhere, blotches of red roses, cards and shiny wrapped chocolates everywhere, men are looking stressed and women anxious. What says I love you without her expecting a diamond? Will he send me anything or is it another year on the shelf?

This year my immunity is up and I don’t seem to be hit with the VD blues… yet. It’s funny how, as a single guy, even though it is commercial bullshit, the whole thing can get you down. This is the millionth year in a row that I’ve not had someone to snuggle up to. Being the total romantic that I am, it’s those little things I want, someone to make coffee for, someone to cuddle when I get home, someone to sit silent with on the lounge, experience all those great things that are better shared. I have loads of friends that I love, but no one I’m in love with.

To everyone that’s feeling the same, and to everyone that’s briefly flitted across my romantic radar this year, and to everyone that reads this blog happy Valentines day!

We are sorry

Today, the Australian Government did what they should have done a long time ago. They apologised. They officially said sorry to the Australian Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities for the Stolen Generations. For decades, Aboriginal children were taken from their families and forcibly assimilated into the white community. This apology will hopefully be a big step for reconciliation.

The photo is Casey Conway, Aussiebum model and Native Australian.

I love a good speedball!

No I’m not advocating drug abuse! The speedball is by far my favourite trick that we’ve learned so far at silks class. Charlie videoed this for me and I don’t think he was entirely paying attention, but the light behind me disguises some of my dodgy form. No I wasn’t meant to kick the trapeze next to me on the way down but it didn’t actually hurt. A little bit later I went on and did a double speedball which means I roll further but we didn’t get that on video!


Ok, it’s time for an update on the shorts. I’ve been told that dSquared is stocked in Sydney at a store called Mood, so I called them. Sadly they didn’t get all of the range that the shorts were in and don’t have those ones apparently. So despite the kind offers of a couple of people to send me money towards them, I can’t get a hold of them.

So I’m going to have to go with plan A, which is dye the ones I’ve bought and have them taken up.

it’s iMazing

Every now and then I do something really dumb. I know I’m blonde and it really shows from time to time. Yesterday I learnt a valuable lesson, which could have been a very expensive one. I left the headphones to my iPod in the pocket of my shorts and realised that said shorts had just finished being washed and dried… So now I have some very curly headphones but the amazing thing is that they still work perfectly! iMazing!

I want what I can’t have.

Not having an unlimited supply of wealth at times puts a few limits on one’s life, which isn’t always a bad thing. I’m sure with vast sums of money at my disposal I would have a massive collection of trivial stuff, especially of the shiny and fun variety. I saw these shorts on a certain male model (click the pic to see who) and decided they would make the perfect outfit for the Mardi Gras after party, yet beind dSquared I couldn’t afford them even if I could find them here in Sydney. So my mission to find small short short short red shorts began. When I get something particular in my head I can’t accept a poor substitute but unless one of my loyal readers happens to be one of the Caten twins who make up dSquared, I’m going to have to. I’ve found a pair of shorts in a vague approximation of the right style and I’m going to have to try and dye them red and have them shortened. Fingers crossed.