Everyone in this big beautiful, dysfunctional world thinks differently and I love that. As tough as it can be at times, it’s great to have your perceptions challenged. One of the things I find most fascinating about people is the wide variety of things that turn people on. People’s fetishes are so intriguing, even when you aren’t into them.

One thing I don’t care for is having people force their fetishes on you. Sometimes that is done in a fairly harmless way but it can still be disconcerting.

Last Saturday I squeezed in what is probably my last nude beach day for the season. It was relatively quiet because, especially in the morning the temperature wasn’t quite as warm as I’d hoped. That’s when I saw him. There was a guy who was walking up and down the beach wearing a chastity cage on his cock. That in itself is very unusual on a nude beach but only mildly disconcerting. I don’t personally even understand cock rings on a nude beach. They are a sex related item, not jewellery so in my book they shouldn’t really be on the beach. They don’t really concern me too much though.

What really got to me about this guy was that he was very determinedly making eye contact with people and making sure that we all saw and acknowledged his cock cage. I’m sorry, I just don’t get it. Firstly how is it a turn on to basically not be able to get turned on and what is it about being emasculated publicly that is so important to you? There are ways of exploring that kind of humiliation or submissiveness without forcing it on a beach full of relaxing nudists. Put it away mate, completely.