This week I had a friend request out of the blue on Facebook. Thinking it was for the photo shoot project, I accepted. It turns out it was a guy that thinks he’s seen me on Grindr. He starts flirting and telling me he thinks I’m hot etc which is all very flattering but I look at his photos and his details and he is less than half my age.
Now before you all jump up and down at me and say there’s nothing wrong with an age difference, you are right but just the way this guy was communicating emphasised how young he was. When I told him I wasn’t interested because he was way too young he said “What’s the problem? I wouldn’t have messaged you if I wasn’t interested.” That’s great but do I get a say in that? I’ve come across this before where someone gets offended when you aren’t interested. They just expect that because they are interested then it’s all on.