We’ve all heard of the bisexuality myth where sceptics think men unwilling to come out as gay are hedging their bets or women are playing up their bisexuality to attract men. Of course that’s not the case and bisexuality is real.

Today I was in a conversation on scruff with a guy who didn’t seem to believe that versatility was real. He was asking me if I was top or bottom. I told him I was versatile. So he replied asking “but which do you prefer?” When I told him that I had no preference and that it was a mood and situation thing he seemed sceptical. Then he asked which one I do most. Now I don’t know about you guys, but I don’t keep a tally on my sexual positions over the years so I replied honestly that as far as I’m concerned it was a 50/50 deal.

I know a lot of people think that guys who say they are versatile are really bottoms and that top/vers really means versatile. Why are we so sceptical?