FULL consent.

Only in the past 6-12 months have I had my first experience of someone crossing boundaries about what I wanted them to do sexually and not listening when I said stop. Thankfully I was strong enough to physically stop the guy that was doing it and it didn’t go beyond anything I could handle. It was also in a group sex situation and the other people there were looking out for me. Unfortunately a lot of people aren’t so lucky. Sexual assault and rape are far more common than I ever realised and way more common than they should be.

I for one really enjoy sex when the person I’m having sex wants to be doing what we are doing as much as I do. There has never been any appeal in a one sided sexual encounter for me. Sure, there are times when you want the other person to do all the work or you end up making more effort than your sex partner but for me, if they aren’t interested nor am I. It scares me how many guys don’t seem to care if their partner is enjoying themselves or not.

This guy is a video blogger and clearly, from his accent, he’s British. This is a really simple and effective message about consent.

7 Responses to “FULL consent.”

  1. 1 Sue

    I am very sorry that this happened to you, but at least you were able to stop the incident.

    Three similar situations happened to me in the late ’70s when I was in college, but, like you, I was able to stop the men from raping me with my own physical force. People were so less enlightened at those times, that I did not report those incidents.

    I too do not understand men who do not stop when asked. I find it difficult to believe that they can get off on forcing someone to have sex with them. I wonder who raised these people?

  2. 2 Alex

    Sorry that happened to you & goad you’re alright.

  3. 3 Dave

    Good video needs publicising more

  4. 4 Peter

    This is a really good video. It was actually posted because a youtuber (who actually used to be this guy’s housemate and very good friend) was accused by quite a few girls recently of forcing them to have sex without their consent. It’s sad to think people are using their power and influence over other people to make them do whatever they want. Its so good that these days people speak up and the perpetrators are brought to justice!

  5. 5 jack

    like to know more about the group sex you were in … that would have made a good blog. I didn’t think you were that sot of guy…. more a dates type of guy. What happened after with this dude? Was he dealt with? It’s a serious matter when someone goes beyond agreed boundaries.

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