Last weeks post about not claiming to be innocent and talk about perving in gym showers and nude beaches has certainly started a fascinating dialogue. A few people were very vocal about how terrible or disgusting they thought I am and the practice of cruising or having sex in public places is. It struck me just how diverse people’s boundaries are and how one man’s perceived outrageous kink is another man’s vanilla.
Let me clear something up first. The area that shenanigans goes on at the nude beach I go to is by no means an area that innocent families or wandering tourists are going to just stumble across. It’s out of the way, and I would estimate that 99.99% of people that are there are very clear in why they are there. Nearly 15 years ago when I discovered what happened around there I thought I was straight but looking back in hindsight I would safely say that on some level I knew, or hoped to find what was going on around there.
For me, a bit of al fresco fun is very appealing. I’m an outdoors kind of guy so sex outdoors appeals to me. Would I have sex somewhere blatantly public? Probably not. The idea of having sex somewhere like a movie cinema or on a late night train ride or something is horny but I’d be terrified of being caught. Yes I got caught at the beach by a reader of this blog but being caught by someone who is disgusted or offended is very different than being “caught” or seen by someone doing the same thing. The idea of being arrested isn’t exactly a great one either.
One of the commenters on last weeks post said that I was giving nudists and homosexuals a bad name. Really? If I’m so out of the ordinary why is there a cruising area next to 99% of nude beaches and why is it that you see a lot of married “straight” men cruising in these areas? Homosexuals will have a bad reputation as long as conservative religious hypocrites manipulate the bible to oppress anyone different to them so why not have some fun and a bit of sex along the way?
So, I’m conducting a poll. Would you or do you engage in public sex? This is a poll with four options to choose from. If you want to leave a comment with where you like to get your freak on, go ahead.
Do you ever engage in "public" sex?
- From time to time (45%, 207 Votes)
- Rarely (26%, 119 Votes)
- No way, never (18%, 84 Votes)
- Yep, love it. All the time (12%, 55 Votes)
Total Voters: 464