After many years of being single and chatting to people online I’m wondering if there is a time limit on how long you can chat to someone without hooking up before hooking up just isn’t going to happen. There are a couple of people that I’ve chatted to on and off for a few years, right here in Sydney. One of them has been a sporadic contact over probably 5 years and earlier this year we were going to catch up yet on the weekend we were going to meet, suddenly he disappeared never to be heard from again.

Another guy I still wouldn’t mind catching up with either for a coffee, a real date or even just a random sweaty naked encounter but I don’t know if it will ever happen. I guess there are any number of reasons why we never connect, being conflicting schedules, different moods, different needs and wants. I know I’ve no doubt missed out on lots of opportunities for naked adult fun because when I’ve been chatting to them I’ve been more in the mood for a coffee or a date when they’ve been horny or visa versa.