The topic of a threeway relationship has come up with people I’ve met recently a couple of times, especially over the weekend on the cruise. There was a couple on the cruise that I spent a lot of time hanging out with and one of the guys had been “kind of” in a threeway relationship in the past, as had another friend of mine, a few years back.
I’ve never been in a regular long term relationship so I’m no expert and I’m very keen to hear the experiences of readers who are in or have been in a three way relationship. To my inexperienced eye, most of them come from a third being invited into an established relationship and so far to my knowledge it’s that third that usually ends up hurt or dumped from the experience.
The couple I was hanging out with and I got on very well and hypothetically, instigated from the past experience of one of them, discussed the practicalities of the situation. I personally doubt could ever enter into a threeway relationship with an established couple. I’ve never heard of a long term threeway lasting, so it’s a self preservation exercise, stopping myself getting hurt. Secondly, as a hopeless romantic, no matter how much I desired the other two and felt a bond, I would feel absolutely horrendous if my entering the picture caused any kind of jealousy or tension within the original couple.
Having been single for a long time, I’ve had several threesomes with couples over the years and as the “guest” you are treated to an amazing level of attention and often are attracted to one more than the other. I can’t see the point in entering a situation so prone to jealousy. If any of you are in a three way relationship, please tell me your story.
It’s difficult enough making a two way relationship work!!!
Thanks for the photograph # 1 with guys with flaccid penises like mine – it is wonderful to behold. We are not built like a stallion.
Go with your heart Brenton………..hurt happens to it wether it is threeway, two way or just being Solo, so NOTHING ventured NOTHING gained…..If you feel you are all being Open, Honest about your feelings and actions the numbers in the relationship don’t count…..I have known threeways that have “worked” for decades…………
Hey darl, there’s a three way house hold in our building known as the three bears (nuff said). You’ve probably bumped in to them when you come round. see you tomorrow night.x
It is all about communication! Firstly and continuously with yourself, and all who you engage with. Have fun exploring YOU mate!
I knew a “triple” a few years back. They were genuinely three blokes in love with each other.
Unfortunately no one believed them. The grief they got from str8s was to be expected, so families etc. were not happy with the arrangement but tolerated it. What broke them up was the crap they got from gay people. The assumption was that they were up for anything and promiscuous (they weren’t) and bitchy queens seemed to want to make it fail (it did).
Sadly none of the three has been in a relationship of any worth since then.
Cheers, Polomint
I was in a three way relationship for over ten years. It was a very loving, happy and peaceful time in all of our lives. Of course we had our moments as all couples have but we always seemed to work out our problems.
The only reason it ended is because we were involved in a car accident, one died and the other was paralyzed from the neck down and his family moved him back home to take care of him, I was seriously injured but have made a full recovery.
If things hadn’t worked out the way they did, I am sure that we would all be together today and very happy.
So with the RIGHT people loving each other and sharing the same bed involved, it is possible to have a long term loving three way relationship.