Aussielicious

Last weekend after we got home from a boozy night out, my flatmate and I were chatting and snacking before bed and somehow the nudity thing came up. I’ve been making a concerted effort not to talk about it so I don’t pressure him into saying anything or causing tension.

He said that he doesn’t mind if I walk to the kitchen to get a drink nude or get something from the laundry or whatever. Basically as long as I’m not lying around on the lounge etc he’s ok. That’s a big step from the initial “not comfortable with it at all” situation. I think he’s realised that I’m not interested in sleeping with him and we are becoming good friends and very comfortable with each other which I’m really enjoying.

Our differences aren’t driving each other mad and we are quite respectful of the other’s boundaries. As yet I haven’t tested the new relaxed rules as I wanted to chat about it sober first and make sure he’s ok. The last thing I want to do is make him feel like he has to put up with something that makes him uncomfortable. But right now, he’s away for a few days and I’ve got the house to myself all day so I’m nude and have a nude mate or two dropping by over the day. Yay.