Having been single for a very long time and never really having a significant relationship I don’t know the rules of dating or play by them very well when I do. I’ve always been a heart on my sleeve/open book kinda person and if I like someone I’m rubbish at hiding it.
Last night I met date boy or the Hot Nudie as he may be known at 7pm at a cafe a couple of blocks from my house. I was there first after a rough journey getting there. I went to iron the shirt I planned to wear and saw that it had a mark on it, back in the wash. Then I finished ironing option #2 and went to put the ironing board away and broke the light fitting in front of the cupboard. With no time to vacuum properly I swept up the glass and sent a text to my flatmate telling him to be careful. On arrival at our table, there was a mother and father with two young children, the younger of which promptly knocked something over and started crying.
Thankfully all that disappeared when Hot Nudie arrived. His smile is engaging, one of those ones that lights up the whole face, twinkly blue eyes and all. Before you know it, good conversation, good food, good laughs and nice flirting had swallowed three hours in the blink of an eye and it was time to say goodbye for the night. I walked him around to his car where there was some Grade A goodnight kissing to be partaken. I did walk home with a dopey grin on my face.
Date #2 is scheduled for Sunday, of sorts. Hot Nudie is coming with me to meet friends down in the national park at the nude beach again. Yup, it’s nice. Now I’ve just gotta hope he enjoyed it as much as I did.
It’s only a few days till Sunday, you’ll manage. Enjoy it and don’t worry !
No expectations other than good company and a good time will be had.
Sounds exciting.. nudie on the beach for the second date! love the pic Mate.. now thats delicous.
I have followed your blog for a long but have never commented before.
My advice is to relax. A good way to do this is to tell yourself (and him) that you don’t want to rush into sex. No sex in the first month or two is a good rule of thumb. Also, I would make sure there’s a bit of time between dates. Don’t fall into the trap of seeing each other every day at the beginning. Once a week is good for the first few months. Let it build up.
I wish you both good luck. You deserve a great boyfriend! It’s time!
Forget the rules. Live your life.
Sounds awesome bud! Wow,,nude beach on the 2nd date,,will be no sectrets after that! lol And ur freinds will know what he is packing also! Hope it all works out for u mate!
Yea!!! So glad you had fun. No matter what happens it always so much fun having a great first date. You get to be that innocent 22 year old with no expectations or baggage. And there’s nothing like that first kiss with sparks. Have fun on Sunday!!!!
Have fun on Sunday! I’m sure everything will work out great and you will enjoy it. Love the pic btw, gorgeous eyes on that hottie. TGD
I’m only seeing this now, so hope things are going well. If I’d seen this earlier, I’d suggest that you go into this without any expectations of how things will go. That way, you won’t be worrying whether things are going to fast or not fast enough, they’ll just be going.