Calling all single men. Roll up! Roll up! If you want to meet a man or even if you don’t just by reading this you are endangering your single status. I’ve documented my Love Ebola before. If people are threatened with meeting me, or a date with me, they suddenly find themselves in a wonderful relationship, with someone else. My mates and I are discussing renting me out as a community service. You don’t even have to want a relationship. In fact, you can be actively avoiding one and if I find you remotely attractive, BOOM, you’ll be loved up. I’m sorry.
It’s happened again. I’ve been flirting with and chatting to a guy that I see every couple of weeks at my gym. Two weeks ago I finally got up the nerve to give him my number. He seemed genuinely pleased. Two, three, four days later… no call. One week later, no call. Today I saw him and he said, “Sorry, I’ve just started seeing someone.” I have to say, as pleased as I am that I can bring such happiness to the world, I’m fucking over it. Surely after doing such good community service, after a while, there has to be karma points and I get to have even a little relationship of my own?
ah so that is why I’m still single, I’m not cute enough for you lol
Chin up, Brenton. Meeting people is hard to do (some would say exhausting), and even harder to keep them once found - it’s why many of us are single and trying.
The more you get discouraged, the less successful you will be. Someone said once ‘the harder I try the luckier I get’. Keep on trying and who knows what will happen.
Matty
Patience grasshopper.
As I have said before - when you stop searching for it - it will happen.
Brenton Brenton Brenton
It won’t happen unless you ask!
If you wanted a date with a guy you would of asked, the ball is always in your court!
You didn;t ask it didn’t happen, stop the drama!
Oh my God, you have NO IDEA. I am THE FUCKING MASTER of hooking up guys I like. It’s like an innate talent that I was born with.
Right now, I’m wracking my brain trying to figure out what exactly it is that I’m doing and how I’m doing it, so that I can stop this vicious cycle.. b/c I’m at the point where it’s honestly getting a little bit difficult to live if nothing changes. But until I figure it out (and hopefully you will, too), know that you’re not alone and there’s people going through the very same thing you are.
Stop flirting! Stop trying so hard!
Just start putting yourself in more situations where you can get to meet people to just be friends.
It’s when you don’t push for things to happen in a certain way, that you start to find many other ways that things can happen.
Just let life happen…
Brenton, I am your Melbourne counterpart. Almost every guy that has given me the “I’m not ready for a relationship” speech has ended up in a longterm relationship within WEEKS.
I thought I was the only one haunted by this curse.
Hmmmm! I’m not able to provide any answers apart from what has already been said. Just chill….
Would luv to take you out on a date, beats flirting with my neighbour. Sexy Spanish looks, humble down-to-earth guy. Email me for a chat, if we click, we can go for a Pina Calada. . .
When your as old as I am you have to realize you will be living alone the rest of your life.
That scenario reminds me of a good (straight) friend who would tell me that nearly every time he went into a restaurant to eat, a staff person would come near his table at some point to sweep or clean something off the floor. He thought he was cursed, particularly since that activity annoyed him greatly. It happened to him so often that we would joke about it when we went out together. I then suggested that he change his mindset such that it didn’t bother him and to “reprogram” the scenario to reduce the number of incidences. At the time, 1975, we had both just taken a Silva Mind Control course, which taught us how to do such “reprogramming”. After doing that, he was no longer bothered by the sweeping and it also didn’t happen as often.
Perhaps you can try reprogramming your mindset in a similar manner at least to keep the potential mates available long enough for you to become well acquainted.
Good luck!