Comments on: In my defence

By: Jeff

Jeff — Sun, 07 Jun 2009 08:30:48 +0000

Brenton, been off line the past few weeks OS with my partner so just catching up on things. Sorry to hear about things not working out with your Irish friend. I respect your desire to find the right person and not just any relationship. It is better to know what you want and don’t want than to put up with a relationship just for relationship sake. I once read that we should list out the 8 or 10 must have’s in a relationship and the 8 – 10 things that we can’t stand. Once you got that figured out then you can go out to find the Mr Right based on what is important in a relationship (the must have’s) and what you know will drive you crazy (can’t stands) so you don’t go there. Be true to yourself. Cheers, J

By: Aiden

Aiden — Wed, 27 May 2009 05:15:30 +0000

Brenton, when you meet the right mister, you will forget the one on the white horse. You will leave all your wishes and just be lucky. I hoped for a tall dark hair prince, I am happy with a small blond handsome prince, so you see.
And please ignore all the people who are so negative about you and the irishman. Enjoy your friendship with him!

By: Axel

Axel — Wed, 27 May 2009 04:14:05 +0000

You put the details of your private life out for all to see and then bitch when somebody criticises you. Brenton, you can’t exect everyone to agree with you. It would be a pretty boring world, And, in defence of “Irishman 2″, you never told us of all the problems with the relationship. Just that you had trouble sleeping with someone else and that he snores. My lover of 29 years still snores and still likes to holdme in bed (which I must admit that even 29 years of trying to get used to hasn’t diminished my dislike for it.) If you tell only half the story, you are bound to get only a half right comment.

Axel (San Diego) Born and raised in Brisbane

By: Dexter Mejia

Dexter Mejia — Wed, 27 May 2009 00:24:14 +0000

I have my own blog and I have a feature that allows people to reply to my posts. That means I should be open for public scrutiny.

Now if you are posting something very personal about your life and leave other people to comment on it, you should thank that person and explain to him your situation and not really attack him.

Treat your readers kindly and I am sure they will visit you more often and ask other people to do the same.

By: Max

Max — Tue, 26 May 2009 23:29:34 +0000

oh that guy has issues of his own and your situation is bringing them out again for him. ignore him!

By: Bruce

Bruce — Tue, 26 May 2009 14:08:19 +0000

When you meet “the one”, you will find that even IF the irishman was the one all the baggage that comes along with a mate means nothing in the bigger picture because all of it wouldn’t matter.
I speak from expierence with my mate, Irishman was not the one for you longterm, just a blessed moment to enjoy and move on from.
So enjoy reading your site.

By: Shanon

Shanon — Tue, 26 May 2009 11:25:12 +0000

I agree with you. You are the only one who knows who “the one” is.
Keep looking till you find what makes you happy. That is your right in life. Love the website.

By: the irish man

the irish man — Tue, 26 May 2009 10:01:09 +0000

Irish man 2 comment i think was not understandins facts becasuse he dint know the whole story i think,and it is a story with lots of chapters,WHO knows eh?Theres always a bigger picture,as long as we know the truth thats all that matters :)

By: DTNZ

DTNZ — Tue, 26 May 2009 09:36:59 +0000

People like this just make my butt-hole itch in a bad way.

They read maybe three words of four paragraphs and then make a comment based on their own indignation without having to confront their own ignorance at not being able to (A) Read the whole damn thing; and, (B) be even PARTLY human and understanding.

Shitheads!