I’ve just got home from a less than stellar effort on my part at silks class which frustrates me but I’m aiming to go to open training on the weekend if I can and really push myself and see what I can do with my routine. I’ve just eaten dinner and now need to sort myself out for an early gym session before work.
There is a dilemma at hand, granted a very small one, but a decision needs to be made. Irishman and I have caught up a handful of times now and we speak every day and it’s all very good, but it’s his birthday tomorrow. After so few dates/catchups I’m sure there is no expectation of any gift other than cheeky demands of my body to be used as he sees fit, which may or may not happen. What does one get someone that they have really only just met but would like to see more of? I have an idea for something that I am confident he would like but don’t know if he already has but again I’m not even sure I have time to get it.
I’d do a dinner - not a FINE DINING dinner - but a dinner and a card is more than okay.
I had the some issue when my partner (of 6 years) and I first met.
We hooked up about 4 weeks before his birthday and I had no idea what to get or how much was really appropriate to spend. It turns out I got it wrong, he was very appreciative, but never used the training shirt I bought him.
My point, it doesn’t matter what you get, but it is important to make the effort to recognise his b’day. Maybe make him dinner, dessert, give him a great massage (if you know how) or at least make the time to be with him and give him your full attention (talk about his day and not your own).
Peter got it in one - ignore what the Jew said…. nothing to see here:)
no need for big gift. share nice bottle bubbles/special bottle of wine. and like you say a b-day shag is always appreciated
Yesterday, a friend (who lives a long distance away) phoned me to wishe me a happy birthday. He reminded me (uh, I had forgotten) that we met last year in Ptown on the weekend of my birthday. How sweet of him to remember…..
(Note: I rarely make a big deal of my birthday so it’s no surprise that I didn’t remember that particular aspect of the event.)
Regardless of what you choose to do - let us know. Gifts from the heart count the most to me. If things really are heating up - you are the gift he’ll want most. Show some thought by incorporating something you know about the guy and he’ll see the connection and appreciate it.
Make him dinner, a nice wine to go with it and as dessert…
edible undies;-) sorry my fantasy took over. And as dessert see where it all leads to.Dinner and a movie or show would be great.
What they all said dinner and a birthday cake and a funny card that’s all you need
HAVE FUN
Treat him to dinner, something a little fancier than the usual fare. For desert, chocolate and strawberries make for fine (and fun! and sexy!) dining.
(What, pray tell, is “silks class?”)
Something simple, thoughtful, inexpensive, but -not- cheap.
Material gifts that early aren’t so appropriate. Give him your time.
I agree with Steve… stay away from material items and make it more personal