Comments on: My own silly fault http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 01:51:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.2 By: Dave http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3479 Dave Tue, 21 Apr 2009 22:31:40 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3479 "The Secret" is not correct. A positive attitude can encourage good experiences to happen, but a negative attitude won't attract negative experiences. Also, if you choose to not talk about your disasters, then those experiences might remain more bottled up and that in turn might impair your performance on subsequent dates. I say keep on bitching when you feel you need to, and you're totally not the one attracting these douche bags. “The Secret” is not correct. A positive attitude can encourage good experiences to happen, but a negative attitude won’t attract negative experiences. Also, if you choose to not talk about your disasters, then those experiences might remain more bottled up and that in turn might impair your performance on subsequent dates. I say keep on bitching when you feel you need to, and you’re totally not the one attracting these douche bags.

]]> By: kirill http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3468 kirill Mon, 20 Apr 2009 20:44:38 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3468 hey, that's funny, i watched the Secret just yesterday and here u are talking about it. i think it's kinda true. not maybe in the very way they talk about it, but it help to think positively hey, that’s funny, i watched the Secret just yesterday and here u are talking about it. i think it’s kinda true. not maybe in the very way they talk about it, but it help to think positively

]]> By: Blue Butterfly http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3460 Blue Butterfly Sun, 19 Apr 2009 22:06:32 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3460 Hum... Just be yourself :D I know that one's old but nevertheless true as ever ;> Besides... Does anyone have an advice for if there's a good dating social network website for Australia / Sydney? I'm coming over for a year and hate to be alone :> gr33tz & pls tell me :D Hum…

Just be yourself :D

I know that one’s old but nevertheless true as ever ;>

Besides…
Does anyone have an advice for if there’s a good dating social network website for Australia / Sydney? I’m coming over for a year and hate to be alone :>

gr33tz &
pls tell me :D

]]> By: Another Don http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3456 Another Don Sun, 19 Apr 2009 17:05:33 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3456 You'll still tell US about your date-zasters, right? Schadenfreude is the only freude some of us get! You’ll still tell US about your date-zasters, right? Schadenfreude is the only freude some of us get!

]]> By: Bruce http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3455 Bruce Sun, 19 Apr 2009 14:34:31 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3455 Looking for love in all the wrong places................ Yes indeed like attracts like, in friends and lovers, just look around............ Having had my share of dates in the past, all good all valid, I finally settled when I started looking for guys who WANT to settle. They usually aren't the ones with the flashy exterior, high energy needs and need to go party and to the bars to "mingle" but the homebodies, nurturing ones. So maybe look at what you may be prepared to give up to get a keeper? Just my two cents. Looking for love in all the wrong places…………….
Yes indeed like attracts like, in friends and lovers, just look around…………
Having had my share of dates in the past, all good all valid, I finally settled when I started looking for guys who WANT to settle. They usually aren’t the ones with the flashy exterior, high energy needs and need to go party and to the bars to “mingle” but the homebodies, nurturing ones.
So maybe look at what you may be prepared to give up to get a keeper?
Just my two cents.

]]> By: bernd http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3454 bernd Sun, 19 Apr 2009 14:06:51 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3454 Or you could look on the positive side of it: You have friends out there who really look out for you and want to help you get happy. Yeah, the success-rate still kind'a sucks, but I said you should focus on the positive.... And it makes for another great example of your dry humor I get to enjoy on your blog way to rarely. Or you could look on the positive side of it: You have friends out there who really look out for you and want to help you get happy.

Yeah, the success-rate still kind’a sucks, but I said you should focus on the positive….

And it makes for another great example of your dry humor I get to enjoy on your blog way to rarely.

]]> By: NativeNYker http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3453 NativeNYker Sun, 19 Apr 2009 13:46:03 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3453 Baby, I am truly sorry for your dating woes. But you need to stop wanting something so desperately cuz that is how you miss the little things. I'm not judging you - lord knows I know exactly where you are at 1st hand - but I guess I am making an observation. Given that I have been there & still, every time I see some fucking couple (there goes the bitterness) kissing & stuff, get that little tug at my insides wondering if it will ever happen for me.... I try to remind myself that you can't force a hand. It either happens or it don't and you must learn to be at peace with it. Shit can always be worse baby! Being single can't be that fucking bad... think about it... If you come to NY, you got urself a date though... xo Rants, Thoughts & Merde http://www.rantsthoughtsmerde.com/2009/04/madonna-falls-off-horse.html Baby, I am truly sorry for your dating woes. But you need to stop wanting something so desperately cuz that is how you miss the little things.

I’m not judging you – lord knows I know exactly where you are at 1st hand – but I guess I am making an observation. Given that I have been there & still, every time I see some fucking couple (there goes the bitterness) kissing & stuff, get that little tug at my insides wondering if it will ever happen for me…. I try to remind myself that you can’t force a hand. It either happens or it don’t and you must learn to be at peace with it.

Shit can always be worse baby! Being single can’t be that fucking bad… think about it…

If you come to NY, you got urself a date though…

xo
Rants, Thoughts & Merde
http://www.rantsthoughtsmerde.com/2009/04/madonna-falls-off-horse.html

]]> By: Damian http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3452 Damian Sun, 19 Apr 2009 09:00:35 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3452 Mate you are way too hard on yourself...you are good looking and seemingly genuin person. I love reading your blog and I look for the posts daily. I was a 36 year old in the closet miserable man who weighed 130 kg. My older brother was diagnosed with cancer and I thought life was too short to continue on this self descructive path...I pulled my shit togeather droped 46kgs came kicking and screaming out of the closet. What was so funny about the entire experience everyone already new, so it was no biggy after all. I was amazed at how superficial people were though, all these relatively good looking blokes who had for years rejected me for years where now chasing me around the local nudust beach. I made myself a promise I would never sink to their level I was never rude when I said no and always thanked them for their interest. I have since met the most amazing man. I love him very much we have been dating going on 18 months now. We certainly have had our ups and downs but we persavere and never go to bed angrey with one another. keep up the blogging I really enjoy reading your thoughts. Damian Mate you are way too hard on yourself…you are good looking and seemingly genuin person. I love reading your blog and I look for the posts daily.
I was a 36 year old in the closet miserable man who weighed 130 kg. My older brother was diagnosed with cancer and I thought life was too short to continue on this self descructive path…I pulled my shit togeather droped 46kgs came kicking and screaming out of the closet.
What was so funny about the entire experience everyone already new, so it was no biggy after all. I was amazed at how superficial people were though, all these relatively good looking blokes who had for years rejected me for years where now chasing me around the local nudust beach. I made myself a promise I would never sink to their level I was never rude when I said no and always thanked them for their interest.
I have since met the most amazing man. I love him very much we have been dating going on 18 months now. We certainly have had our ups and downs but we persavere and never go to bed angrey with one another.
keep up the blogging I really enjoy reading your thoughts.
Damian

]]> By: Don http://www.aussielicious.com.au/2009/04/19/my-own-silly-fault/#comment-3448 Don Sun, 19 Apr 2009 06:34:30 +0000 http://www.aussielicious.com.au/?p=1364#comment-3448 There are lots of books on the market regarding "The Secret", such as the venerable "Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale. More recent books are "Three Magic Words" and "The Secret of Secrets - Your Key to Subconscious Power" by Uell S. Andersen. Additionally the techniques of Silva Mind Control can be particularly useful in implementing personal goals. Links: http://www.silvamethod.com/ There are lots of books on the market regarding “The Secret”, such as the venerable “Power of Positive Thinking” by Norman Vincent Peale. More recent books are “Three Magic Words” and “The Secret of Secrets – Your Key to Subconscious Power” by Uell S. Andersen. Additionally the techniques of Silva Mind Control can be particularly useful in implementing personal goals.

Links:
http://www.silvamethod.com/

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