It seems that all my buddies that I hang out with nude on the beach are all coming together. Over the course of the two nude dinners we’ve had, I think almost all my nude friends have met. In June we have a long weekend and a few of us have decided to go away for the weekend up to the Central/North coast. A nude friend that has just moved to Sydney wants to join us, so 3 of us are having a nude dvd night tomorrow night. All my non-nudie friends think it’s very strange but I think it’s great.
I still don’t get why we can’t get nude in front of our friends who should always be more kind than any stranger.
Wish I had friends like the ones in those pictures when I was in my early 20’s! The second picture looks like it was taken at a resort I stayed at in Palm Springs. It’s clothing optional but there weren’t any bodies like that walking around that week… but I believe they host some porn party or something. I’m sure during Pride is a great time to stay there.
Yeah, I can actually see most people being more worried about their friends seeing them naked than strangers. Reason being that a lot of people care much more about judgements their friends might make than random strangers who’s opinions don’t really matter to them.
Like, if I were to go to a nude beach, I think having my friends there would just make me more insecure. Which is a shame.
That “I can’t be naked in front of you” thing is a weird one, eh? Someone should do a history lesson on where clothes came from, who started it, why they did, and all of that. And I’m on the prowl for some warm days to begin my sojourn to our beaches. ANYBODY WANT TO JOIN ME HERE IN OREGON ON THE BEACH THIS SUMMER????
Will the DVD also be “clothing optional”? Or just straight forward P.O.R.N.
I really like hanging naked with buds, but have been to two private, in home events — because the groups around here the men tend not to be very fit. The groups I attended were all professional, fit and fun guys…lots of sharing, talking, watching movies, eating together — but both of them turned into parties where everyone ‘got off’. How do you keep that from happening? and, are there rules about hooking up with a guy after the party?
I am not in a position right now to pursue this, but I think the group you are creating is fabulous! How I wish that I had a group of guys that I could hang with nude. Especially doing just normal things - eating dinner, watching DVDs, etc. And pursuing nudist travel would be great - whether to other nude beaches or resorts, or even just to hang out naked in the hotel room at night, would be a great way to finish off the day.
I started a group once, we met once a month for a games night or movies, did a trip to a farmstay once where they were cool with a lot of naked men running around the place.
The trick is to be very clear about the sex thing and make sure the rules are defined. Regulars become watchdogs, anything inappropriate and you just have a quiet word ” not here mate” or “sorry we don’t do that” is usually sufficient. The big problem is erections, some people will get them, us men can be embarrassingly semaphoric. Again it’s a matter of being clear on the subject, an erection at a social function is not to be seen as an invitation for sex. MOst guys will try to discretely hide it, towel, cushion, lava lamp, but in any case you should just “fail” to see it and act normally.
As for hooking up well I suppose it’s just like any social event. If you like someone just do what you would normally do at any party, arrange to meet them after or go elsewhere or finf a quiet corner and have a chat.